If you were Sandra's b/f or g/f.........

[CrazyCop]

I don't want to scare or offend Mrs. Shine, but I was wondering this question to all.....

If you were Sandra's b/f or g/f, what kind would you be?

[CrazyCop]

Me personally, I could definitly see myself as probably the worst one there is. Here's a list why:
1) I'm needy
2) I'm toooooooo emotional
3) I get jealous very easily
4) I'm high mainteanence (always need her to tell me how good I am, smart, cute, funny, sexy.........the list goes on
5) I'm too rightious and set impossible standards for people (Even higher than my own. Cause my loved one is perfect in my eyes and should be in everyone elses.....kind of a double standard uh? Shouldn't matter what others think in a perfect world, but who said this was a perfect world?)
6) I'm too paranoid and dependant [yeah, they can work together.......Imagination time: I call our dearest Sandra a cheating @#$%^ and scream at her to get away from me. With a tear in her eye (because she's a kind and sensitive lady) she turns to walk away. I jump at her and wrap me arms around her angles, screaming, crying and pleading to her "PLEASE DON'T LEAVE ME!!!!!!! I'M SORRY!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!! IT WAS MY FAULT!!!!!!!! etc.]
7) Repeating the 1st again (I'd follow her everywhere. I'd be too scared that she'd leave me in ten seconds for someone better. Let me think who..........ohhhh......yeah....ANYONE ELSE:icon_lol: :icon_frow (that wasn't a miss smiley)

Ohhhh, there's more......but I'm tired.

[Mr SunShine]

I don't want to scare or offend Mrs. Shine, but I was wondering this question to all.....

If you were Sandra's b/f or g/f, what kind would you be?
I would be a great boyfriend hopefully.
I'm not very jealous, possesive or paranoia.
She can do what she like, till certain limits.
Im very easy to get along, she's propably more serious than me :)
I would still have a job, I like to work and to be useful.
But still have time for our relation.
I would surprise her from time to time.
Maybe she's not only a perfect model but also a great girlfriend.
So I hope we get along very well.
When I feel fine and certain about our relationship I will drop the Big Question to my beloved one. Propably at a candelight dinner.
On the other side.
This is typical Sunshine:
When I feel neglected it would not let her know.
I will keep it for myself, and feel very sad inside.
Feeling very betrayed and really really sad.
And one day I will just disappear. Leaving a letter which says
"I wish you the very best, but it's time for me to move on.
You deserve a much better friend, thanks for the time you spent on me"
And that's it.
People very close to me never get a second change.

CrazyCop:
Ohhhh, there's more......but I'm tired.

even more???? :D

[Xed]

Easy - a horny one :)

[stacia]

Easy - a horny one :)

LOL, Xed. I think that's the most honest answer yet. :)

I actually have no answer to this question...it's odd, but I have never thought about it. Maybe it's because I know it's impossible. :confused:

I think about other things, but not this. But, that's all Sandra's fault. :icon_yes:

[Sandra Shine]

LOL, Xed. I think that's the most honest answer yet. :)

I actually have no answer to this question...it's odd, but I have never thought about it. Maybe it's because I know it's impossible. :confused:

I think about other things, but not this. But, that's all Sandra's fault. :icon_yes:

:icon_frow :icon_frow :icon_frow

[Razor]

I don't want to scare or offend Mrs. Shine, but I was wondering this question to all.....

If you were Sandra's b/f or g/f, what kind would you be? I have absolutely no idea. I've never actually thought about it. I love Sandra, she's a friend and an angel. But Maggie is the only women I want.

[stacia]

:icon_frow :icon_frow :icon_frow

Awwww....what's wrong? :icon_frow

[Mr SunShine]

Easy - a horny one :)

:D
I forgot to say : horny and lucky :yippee:

[Mr SunShine]

Awwww....what's wrong? :icon_frow

Give Sandra a kiss and a hug Stacia :love: :icon_hug:
I know she would love it

[CrazyBlue]

Oh man! What a question :icon_pape. How old are you?

Well. I wish I could say: "I would be the best boyfriend she had in her life!!":icon_roll
Knowing that this must be true.
But in real life I only can say: "If this should ever happen. I will try to do my best for her!"

What do you want to read?
The right answer is impossible to tell bevore anyone of us even got the chance to know Sandra as a friend for some months.
And even after that no one can tell by her/himself weather she/or he would be as good, as Sandra wants or needs.

[CrazyBlue]

Awwww....what's wrong? :icon_frow

This is obviously to me:
I have never thought about it. Maybe it's because I know it's impossible.
a) nothin' is impossible
b) You have never thought about being Sandras girlfirend?
I think about other things, but not this. But, that's all Sandra's fault. :icon_yes:
You think more about sex than relationship? :icon_roll

(don't take that too serious ;-)

[stacia]

This is obviously to me:
I have never thought about it. Maybe it's because I know it's impossible.
a) nothin' is impossible
b) You have never thought about being Sandras girlfirend?
I certainly didn't intend to hurt my Darling's feelings with my comments, and I see your point :) Maybe I'm a realist or a pessimist, I don't know. I know this is all "pretend," but I guess I'd be teasing myself if I did pretend on this issue.

I think about other things, but not this. But, that's all Sandra's fault. :icon_yes:
You think more about sex than relationship? :icon_roll No, not sex, actually. Sandra knows that I absolutely adore her, and that whatever feelings I have for her are genuine; not because of her fame or what she does for a living, but because I have been lucky enough to get to know her as a person. In no way am I implying that I don't think Sandra is "relationship material"--of course she is! If things were different, I'd probably ask her to marry me ;)

Oops...but, I guess that IS a relationship, isn't it? :icon_bigg

[Razor]

I certainly didn't intend to hurt my Darling's feelings with my comments, and I see your point :) Maybe I'm a realist or a pessimist, I don't know. I know this is all "pretend," but I guess I'd be teasing myself if I did pretend on this issue.
No, not sex, actually. Sandra knows that I absolutely adore her, and that whatever feelings I have for her are genuine; not because of her fame or what she does for a living, but because I have been lucky enough to get to know her as a person. In no way am I implying that I don't think Sandra is "relationship material"--of course she is! If things were different, I'd probably ask her to marry me ;)

Oops...but, I guess that IS a relationship, isn't it? :icon_bigg
Hey Babe; I don't think you hurt her feelings. I think I know where you're coming also. I feel the same way about Sandra, she's a friend, she's someone I've come to admire and respect as a person. I'd feel the same way about her regardless of what she did for a living... Sandra's just good people.

[stacia]

Give Sandra a kiss and a hug Stacia :love: :icon_hug:
I know she would love it

Trust me, I'm counting the days (okay, well, months) till I can do that--for real. :)

[Mr SunShine]

Trust me, I'm counting the days (okay, well, months) till I can do that--for real. :)
That day will come Stacia:bowdown:

If i was her boyfriend?
We would be huggin and kissin all day.
And invite all forum people for a big party off course :icon_peac

[Xed]

I originally posted a pretty simple response, but I also had a serious thought as well.

To be Sandra's boyfriend, the guy would need to be strong and confident, as well as wise. Strong and confident because let's face it, she's a babe and would be getting gawked at by other guys/gals everywhere you go. I've dated women like that, and while it's a nice compliment to have people staring at your date, it can also get a little irritating when you've got guys giving her "googly-eyes" behind your back. You'd need to be confident enough with yourself to be able to tolerate this, and be strong enough not to get upset about it no matter how slimy people are being behind your back.

Also, in relationships many people mistakenly think that they "own" the other person, which causes the demise of many good relationships. To have a great relationship, you need to let the other person be free to do all they want to, in this case Sandra has a career posing nude with other hot women. You'd have to be wise enough to say, and believe "I love her no matter what she's doing" and "I support her no matter what". If you couldn't honestly do that and relinquish all control over her, you'd eventually find yourself getting jealous, getting on her nerves, and otherwise strangling the love you'd otherwise have.

Sandra, as you can see from the above, I'm very well versed in the ups and downs involved in dating a goddess such as yourself. Clearly I'd make the dream boyfriend, so let me know when and where I can start showering you with gifts, hugs kisses, chocolates, lingerie, diamonds, nice cars, and some burnin' hot manlove... I'm ready!!! :icon_peac

[CrazyBlue]

No, not sex, actually. Sandra knows that I absolutely adore her, and that whatever feelings I have for her are genuine; not because of her fame or what she does for a living, but because I have been lucky enough to get to know her as a person.

So am I!
It might be strange in some men's eyes. But I am here because of the person and not because of the body and fame. These last 2 things just brought me here.
And I am damn happy about that!

[Frenchy]

I don't know about your reply !!
I don't have good english for explain my real sentiment about this subject !
In the same time I can repeat something like before in other threads !!

All the people are really different !!
Couple of different things can encourage the relation between 2 persons !!
I'm not sure can know by advance what the person need for the life !

When you say be strong and confident !!
Strong I think you say mental and by this way I say right of course !
For confident, depend if Sandra can or want share all thing inside her to boyfriend !!
Some girls have always secret garden !
I think the boyfriend must have some others interesting skills for stay with Sandra !!
I'm not sure be strong and confident is enought !!
So must be really openmind and many others things I can't guess !!

So, finally not possible guess and perhaps Sandra can't too !!
Cause many couples of different things need for making good relationship !

And for the subject "... you need to let the other person be free to do all they want to ..."
Perhaps, I don't understand really that !! Sorry !
Depend what do you want to say by free !!
All people need limits if you don't have limits you can't live good all the times like that, when you know your limits or If you have objective and if you have some rules for reach your objective, you go in right way !!
In the couple you must share the objectives and help for reach her/his objective !!
For this subject, It's my opinion !!!

[Mr SunShine]

I originally posted a pretty simple response, but I also had a serious thought as well.

To be Sandra's boyfriend, the guy would need to be strong and confident, as well as wise. Strong and confident because let's face it, she's a babe and would be getting gawked at by other guys/gals everywhere you go. I've dated women like that, and while it's a nice compliment to have people staring at your date, it can also get a little irritating when you've got guys giving her "googly-eyes" behind your back. You'd need to be confident enough with yourself to be able to tolerate this, and be strong enough not to get upset about it no matter how slimy people are being behind your back.

Also, in relationships many people mistakenly think that they "own" the other person, which causes the demise of many good relationships. To have a great relationship, you need to let the other person be free to do all they want to, in this case Sandra has a career posing nude with other hot women. You'd have to be wise enough to say, and believe "I love her no matter what she's doing" and "I support her no matter what". If you couldn't honestly do that and relinquish all control over her, you'd eventually find yourself getting jealous, getting on her nerves, and otherwise strangling the love you'd otherwise have.

Sandra, as you can see from the above, I'm very well versed in the ups and downs involved in dating a goddess such as yourself. Clearly I'd make the dream boyfriend, so let me know when and where I can start showering you with gifts, hugs kisses, chocolates, lingerie, diamonds, nice cars, and some burnin' hot manlove... I'm ready!!! :icon_peac

Hi Xed

it's great to hear you are ready.
I hope sandra is ready for you :icon_peac

[alexfb]

I would be more than faithful and attentive :icon_hug:. Hehe ;)

[_Nick_]

If I were Sandra's boyfriend I think I'd faint!

:yippee: