Have you ever cheated/been cheated on?

[stacia]

I guess I should start. I am guilty as charged. :icon_no: :nono: I have cheated on someone once, when I was young and stupid. I had met this great woman online who lived in Canada. I guess you can say that after 19 months, we were in a relationship, and I was on my way out there to meet her for the first time. Well, less than two weeks before my trip, I hooked up with a friend of mine (we'd been together before, but years prior). Anyway, V knew that K was coming over, and she was fine with that.

Two really awkward (and bad) things happened within minutes of each other; while K had her head buried you-know-where, the phone rings--it's V! I have no idea why I answered the phone, in case you were wondering. Anyway, THEN, my other line clicks...my brother and his man are downstairs with a gift for me (they were giving me little gifts every day until my trip to celebrate). So, I freaked out, and did the worst thing possible--I asked K to talk to V while I ran downstairs. I know, I know.

And it gets worse...I went to Canada, and fucked the hell out of V, not telling her about my tryst with K. A couple of months went by, and I couldn't take it anymore, so I told V what had happened that night. She started crying, cursing me out, etc. She was really upset that she talked to K after she knew "where her mouth had been." It was awful, and needless to say, the end of our relationship.

[Trish]

For someone so shy, you sure lay it all out there.

:icon_hug: that's for sharing...

and :icon_punc that's for putting your girlfriends to talk to each other! What the :icon_cens were you thinking?

Lesson to be learned kids... too much punci ain't always good for you! :icon_mrha

T.

[A.J. Angel]

LOL!!! I have to say that it wasn't very smart to put your two girlfriends on the phone. By the way, why did you even picked it up? Here's an advice, next time it rings, don't pick it up. Another advice, always lock all doors downstairs so no one could come in. Someone rings? Forget about him/her. Present's pleasure is more important. :D

[CrazyCop]

I really don't know what to say about that Stacia :icon_no:.......

Ohh, and I haven't been in a romantic relationship with anyone, so........

[Razor]

Damn Stacia, someone should spank you. :)

I'm not sure I'd call it cheating but I once started seeing another girl before I had broken up with the girl I was dating... We had reached the point where it was all over but the shouting, so we both started seeing other people before finally said it was over.

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I've never cheated but my college boyfriend :icon_evil (A.K.A. the single biggest mistake I've ever made) cheated on me... Actually he pretty much cheated on everything.

XOXO;

Maggie

[VanHouten]

All cheaters get what they deserve in the end; it never fails.

[Trish]

All cheaters get what they deserve in the end; it never fails.
:icon_nerv Uh oh.

Well, waaaaaaaaay back in the day, my very first girlfriend was much older than I. Being that I was still in highschool and dealthly afraid of what my mother would do to me if I ever skipped, I decided to be academically good and always stay in school. As it turned out, that was a bit much for my girlfriend at the time. So she cheated on me as I wasn't "there" enough and when I found out, I slept with her best friend because I knew how much he liked me and I knew how much it would hurt my ex. What? I was a kid back then okay, what did I seriously know about relationships anyway? Don't judge me. :icon_lol:

Technically when I found out, I didn't verbally say it was over. I stormed out, did what I did, waited for the crap to hit the fan and then say it was over.

So, if I'm going to 'burn in hell' for being a lesbian, I may as well add vengeful cheating on there too, huh? :icon_peac Not that I'm a firm believer in cheating, but there are always reasons behind why people do cheat. It's not always about lust.

Pink punci's anyone? :icon_drun

T.

[A.J. Angel]

:icon_nerv Uh oh.

Well, waaaaaaaaay back in the day, my very first girlfriend was much older than I. Being that I was still in highschool and dealthly afraid of what my mother would do to me if I ever skipped, I decided to be academically good anf always stay in school. As it turned out, that was a bit much for my girlfriend at the time. So she cheated on me as I wasn't "there" enough and when I found out, I slept with her best friend because I knew how much he liked me and I knew how much it would hurt my ex. What? I was a kid back then okay, what did I seriously know about relationships anyway? Don't judge me. :icon_lol:

Technically when I found out, I didn't verbally say it was over. I stormed out, did what I did, waited for the crap to hit the fan and then say it was over.

So, if I'm going to 'burn in hell' for being a lesbian, I may as well add vengeful cheating on there too, huh? :icon_peac Not that I'm a firm believer in cheating, but there are always reasons behind why people do cheat. It's not always about lust.

Pink punci's anyone? :icon_drun

T.

Hmm... this thread is getting sinful. :icon_twis That hurts!!! Cheat on someone and then get cheated with his/her best friend by revenge... If this continues, there's enough stuff to put up some books. Here's a few titles I've thought: "How to cheat without being caught?", "How to take revenge on someone who cheated you?". :D

And Trish, don't worry, you won't go and burn in hell for being a lesbian. :) There are worse people than you. ;) If you want some examples then here's some: rapists and kidf:icon_censers (that's a word I made up from another similar word starting with mother...). :)

[Trish]

Hmm... this thread is getting sinful. :icon_twis That hurts!!! Cheat on someone and then get cheated with his/her best friend by revenge... If this continues, there's enough stuff to put up some books. Here's a few titles I've thought: "How to cheat without being caught?", "How to take revenge on someone who cheated you?". :D

And Trish, don't worry, you won't go and burn in hell for being a lesbian. :) There are worse people than you. ;) If you want some examples then here's some: rapists and kidf:icon_censers (that's a word I made up from another similar word starting with mother...). :)

Um thanks, AJ. I think. :confused:

But yeah, you can definately get a lot of ideas here for any genre of entertainment. The entire forum is just one giant talk show anyway. :icon_bigg But what I want to know is, now that you've got at least 2 working titles for new books, when do you think they'll hit the bookstores, or is that a grand surprise too? ;)

:icon_lol:

T.

[A.J. Angel]

Um thanks, AJ. I think. :confused:

No need to think, it's the truth. :) You don't go and burn in hell just because you're a lesbian or a gay. If it was the case then Satan got work to do. :D

P.S. Alright, it wasn't a funny joke. I apologize to all I offend. :bowdown:


But yeah, you can definately get a lot of ideas here for any genre of entertainment. The entire forum is just one giant talk show anyway. :icon_bigg But what I want to know is, now that you've got at least 2 working titles for new books, when do you think they'll hit the bookstores, or is that a grand surprise too? ;)

:icon_lol:

T.

Well, if you guys vote for it, I'll work out the books and post them here. :)

[stacia]

Not that I'm a firm believer in cheating, but there are always reasons behind why people do cheat. It's not always about lust.
T.

Thanks, T.
I completely agree with this statement. I think part of the reason I cheated because I was afraid. I mean, V just wanted so much from me...she even asked me to move to Canada. I dunno. I am in no way excusing my actions, but I do feel that if you are not completely happy or secure in your relationship, sometimes you look elsewhere. But, still, that is not the way to handle things, as I learned.

But, karma is a bitch, because two years later, the love of my life cheated on me. It was not until then that I knew the devastating pain that I put V through. Lessons learned.

[Trish]

Thanks, T.
I completely agree with this statement. I think part of the reason I cheated because I was afraid. I mean, V just wanted so much from me...she even asked me to move to Canada. I dunno. I am in no way excusing my actions, but I do feel that if you are not completely happy or secure in your relationship, sometimes you look elsewhere. But, still, that is not the way to handle things, as I learned.

But, karma is a bitch, because two years later, the love of my life cheated on me. It was not until then that I knew the devastating pain that I put V through. Lessons learned.

:icon_hug:

That is what's important. You learn from your mistakes and grow as a person. Unfortunately karma is indeed a bytch, but it's the only way to truly know how the other shoe fits.

I'm proud of you too. :)

T.

[Trish]

No need to think, it's the truth. :) You don't go and burn in hell just because you're a lesbian or a gay. If it was the case then Satan got work to do. :D

P.S. Alright, it wasn't a funny joke. I apologize to all I offend. :bowdown:



Well, if you guys vote for it, I'll work out the books and post them here. :)

It's cool, AJ. We're cool. :icon_mrha

Pink punci? :icon_drun

T.

[stacia]

:icon_hug:

That is what's important. You learn from your mistakes and grow as a person. Unfortunately karma is indeed a bytch, but it's the only way to truly know how the other shoe fits.

I'm proud of you too. :)

T.

Thanks, T. I'll never be a "cheetah" again, I know that for sure. :)

[Trish]

Thanks, T. I'll never be a "cheetah" again, I know that for sure. :)

Yeah. Try leopardizing or pantherizing instead. See how that works out for ya!

T.

[A.J. Angel]

It's cool, AJ. We're cool. :icon_mrha

You guys are cool? Alright then, I'll work it out and post it up here as soon as I'm finished. I'm not sure how long it's going to take but it should be pretty fast since I'm on vacation. :)


Pink punci? :icon_drun

T.

Pink punci? Hell yeah!!! :D

[Trish]

You guys are cool? Alright then, I'll work it out and post it up here as soon as I'm finished. I'm not sure how long it's going to take but it should be pretty fast since I'm on vacation. :)

Actually, I meant that the situation is cool and that you and I are okay. But, if you're going to write it anyway, this should be interesting...

T.